It Is Okay to Say No Sometimes

12–15 minutes

Center · Stillness

Settle in

Put the phone down. Take one slow breath, and say: “God, I am here. Speak, I am listening.”

Read · The passage

Scripture

Simply let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ Anything more comes from the evil one.

Matthew 5:37, BSB

Learn · Reflection

Reflection

It Is Okay to Say No Sometimes

Talk · Conversation

Talk about it

Is there a yes you keep saying just so you will not disappoint someone? What would change if it were an honest no?

Thank · Gratitude

Give thanks

Today I thank God that I can rest without guilt, just as Jesus also rested.

Ask · Prayer

Pray together

Lord, give me the courage to let my yes be yes and my no be no. Teach me to guard my time and my heart with wisdom.

Begin · Application

Carry it into the day

Today, give one kind, honest no to a request you cannot carry, with no made-up excuses.

Scripture quoted from the Berean Standard Bible. Public domain (CC0)